Welcome back mama's I am excited that it is Thanksgiving day. And you may be listening to me on Thanksgiving. If you have taken the time out your Thanksgiving Day to listen this podcast. First of let me say thank you very much. I am honored that you are spending some your Thanksgiving Day with me, but I want to talk to today about something that I just had a really big lesson in and when I thinking about what I would talk about this week, I'm like, what should do? What should talk about? I'm oh my gosh. This is it. So it's all about doing it messy. You guys doing it messy taking the action doing the things that you know need to be done or you want to do but you may not know exactly how to do it all but just going anyway taking the steps. Anyway, seeing the step in front and just keep moving forward, right? This is what I wanted talk to about today and what I am like learning along the I didn't used be very good at this. Like I always was fly the seat of pants and jump in and you I don't like a script like I never script out my podcast or anything like that. I usually have a quotes that hopefully keep me on track and I try not to too long right like but I always I just speak from the heart right, but that's not what I mean by doing it messy. I mean when you are In you you're doing something that haven't done before like I've done this podcast before I talk all the Like I feel like I am well
versed you a of the subjects that I talk about and so that's not really doing it messy what I is you know what I just did this past weekend and I'm pause and I'm I'm gonna because last week I totally Breeze through and my quote wasn't until like halfway through so I have couple quotes. I want share with you today. I think and one for sure is this one from Mahatma Gandhi and it says it's the action not the fruit of action that's important. You have to do the right thing. It may be in power may not be in your time that there will any fruit. But that doesn't mean you stop doing the right thing. You may never know what results come from your action. But if you do nothing there will no results. So I felt like that one I like is that the one I want do but actually for motherhood that one spoke to me so much because you know you for for your business or for making yourself better or things like that that you maybe doing it messy like just taking the steps forward. You're probably gonna see results right? Like you're going to see some results. But when do things like this with your kids like we're always doing it messy. Right? Like it doesn't have to be we you you've never done this before right when you become a mother your first child, like you've never done this before and you're doing it all messy, right and you don't know what that's gonna look like. You don't know what results are gonna come from it. You don't know if you're gonna see the fruits of results like you don't know but you just take the action and you move forward because you know that if don't do that if don't instill values, you don't make the corrections if you don't, you know discipline if you don't Do these things that are hard and that you mess it up half the time you wind up yelling you, you know you go off and you do these things that you thought. Oh, gosh, I would never do that. Right but you do them and you mess up along the but you're taking the action and the result is hopefully this child, right? That is gonna learn right from wrong. That is Gonna Learn, you know how to behave that is going to learn all these things. But if you don't do it, if you just, you know, don't do the hard and you don't mess up along the way then you're gonna have this kid that is ruling your house. Right? So thought that was really appropriate for motherhood. And then also just for anything that you're trying to do because if you don't take the action, if you don't take the steps moving towards that true north, you we keep talking about this is kind what my whole podcast is around is about right like finding your true north figuring out what's important to And then taking steps in your life to make yourself better to grow to move yourself forward taking actions making decisions doing things that maybe you've never done before right, but we're gonna do a messy. We're gonna do it messy, right? Like when I start when people start podcasts and I'm still at the beginning of my journey, right? Like they are probably really bad at it and I'd like think that wasn't really bad at it, but I'm sure I'm going to get better. Like know I'm going get better. I hope I'm not terrible but If I look back like what I be in future, this might really terrible, right and there's a lot of people like I heard Trent Shelton Trent Shelton has millions and millions of followers. He you he's will play football and he has a huge following and business and different things and he a podcast and he all kinds of things and when looks back at how he used speak and how he used to talk. He's like, oh my gosh, he's like, can't even listen, you know, it was terrible whatever and I'm I'll look back at this one day and think the thing in the of it, right? You are just taking the action, you know, you're messing up. Like I know I'm editing things out. I'm doing things that are like, oh gosh. I probably shouldn't have said or maybe shouldn't have but I do it messy and you leave it in because if you don't do it and move forward then you are going to never do it. Right? Like there's no result. They can come if it's a bad result. We always learn From our failures. We always learn from our mistakes. We always learn from these things. I have a oh gosh it fell down. I have a I have a quote hanging behind my head which it's now on floor because it evidently it fell down. It says there is no failure. You either win or learn so when you try something and you take messy action, I'm gonna tell you a story about why I think this was like in my head this week and it's because I don't know if you guys last week I told you that was doing this Mastermind. It was called the mom is ready to find mental health success Mastermind and I interviewed 10 experts, you know, it was supposed start on Friday who's actually supposed to start on November 11th, and I had to push it back to November 17th because I was having so many Tech issues and different things that we're going wrong that there was no way for me to fix all of that and get it promoted in way that I wanted prior to the 11th and even moving back to the 17th. I knew it wasn't going to be the way wanted it. However Or I knew that going into the holidays is when moms need this stuff most that's when they need to learn how to improve joy in their life to reduce stress in their life to be more present with your kids. Like this is the time of year that that is really hard. It's always hard right but this time of year, especially and was like, I do not want push this off any longer the longer I push it off, you you're up against Thanksgiving then you're into the Christmas holidays like moms need this now and so I move forward I did it. I you know all of my experts because of all the tech issues couldn't even promote it until like the few days leading up to the event and maybe it didn't get as much play as it should have. I don't know right a of the experts probably didn't even get to promote it the that they would have if it when it supposed to be but I just wanted to push forward and move forward and the reason Is is that if I didn't then you number one like who knows when it would the right time right? It's never the right time. But number two who needed that now like who needed what I had come up with what I put together what I had done all of this work for there are people that needed that right now they needed that right now, you know, and if I would put off, I have no idea, you know, if those people would be the same people maybe they wouldn't be you know, but I feel like everything happens for a reason and this was just my first Mastermind, right? Like I will do that again, I will do it again. The interviews were amazing the feedback I've had has been great if you listened or you you know, got your ticket or whatever you can actually still get replay. So it was over on Tuesday, but I'm replaying it like it's up alive through the weekend so you can still go register and get right now. So if you're listening to this as you know, it's Least on November 23rd, you can still get it through this weekend. I'll drop in the show notes how you will you will be to register and get that and you'll all 10 interviews and all 10 people dropped like a freebie that goes along with that interview so that you didn't just hear what said and you could actually take it and put into practice but I digress so back to the doing it messy. So I just pushed forward you guys. I was actually going to be in the Bahamas so out the country when it released I was leaving for Bahamas on Friday morning and that's it released. So I like, okay Mom. You've got to subscribe. You've to check on every morning and tell me if it's up if it's running, you just send me a I even know if I'm gonna be to get on me internet which I could get on the internet, but it unsecured and so it didn't work well and I couldn't do what I needed to do from over there to change or do anything. Thankfully it was going well and the automation that Up was you was working properly you guys but like it was it took a big like leap of faith. I was just trusting God and I was trusting that I was supposed do this and this was supposed happen and it was going to work in the timing that it was supposed work in right? I had chosen a date to this and already had to it back but wasn't gonna push it any further. I wasn't going to allow it to not be messy. I was going to take the action and to continue moving forward because I felt like that the right thing to do. And so whatever it is that you're making a decision for in life. Just know that you can do it messy. Just take that step like take that step forward. I would like to say that if you are moving forward in any, you towards any goal whether it be a you know, a career goal a business goal a personal Or whatever it is. You will do it messy before you do it well. And it's never going be perfect. It's never going perfect. Right and so it when start right, it's never gonna be a perfect when you start doesn't matter if you start now and do it messy or if you start later something about it is still going to be messy. So you have to take that messy action. So I have another quote that I wanted to share. And this one. I have no idea how to pronounce like I'm not sure if this came from this person or a group people but it just says take massive imperfect action towards your goals. The time will never be just right and I so believe that because you just have to run after it Massive Action. Like that's the way that you're going to make the biggest change in your life for yourself is by taking that massive action and doing it scared doing it messy doing it just because you know, that's what want to do. It's the right thing to do for you and you should do it messy. So there's affirmations. There's different things. You can say to yourself with regard to this to just you make sure that you are. Taking that action that you don't start doubting yourself because when we start doubting ourselves, we are again, we're over analyzing things. We are taking a look our self and thinking we're not good enough, right? Like we don't have what it takes in whatever aspect. It could a completely personal, you know, you could be trying to you know, trying to start journaling or trying to start meditating or trying to you it could starting a business or something like that, but it be starting to write a book. It could be, you know, anything that you want to do losing weight and you just know that you're going to have mistakes and you're to have things that happen along the and just remember that you are not failing you are learning right? You're either gonna win or you're gonna learn that's like one my favorite things so you can tell yourself that There is no failure. I either learn or I went I either win or I however, you want to put it like I put the win first you're gonna win because I'm hoping for the win. But if not, I'm Gonna Learn I'm gonna learn something and then guess what? I'm gonna take messy action again, and it's not gonna be as messy the next time I take the action because I'm going to have learned something and there's always going to be something to be learned right the more you take the action. The more there's going to be things that you want to do and you grow so you should just take the action today. Even when you don't feel ready, even when you don't feel ready because honestly the timing is never exactly right. The timing is never exactly perfect. So you're not going to feel ready whenever you take the action because there's always going to be something standing in your way. So I just want to implore you today to do it messy. That's my message. It's kind short and sweet this week, but really believe that it something that was a lesson that I learned firsthand and you guys I don't know what the results of my actions will be. I have no idea what kind impact this made. me taking this action of doing this, but I know that it gave the confidence I learned so much by doing it. There are many things. I want to improve upon but I hope that it made some kind impact and even it only impacted one person and even if that person was me because it didn't impact me like I learned a lot. I learned a from my it the people I interviewed but I also learned a from my mistakes and things I made along the way and even if that one person was me it was worth it. Right, but I'm hoping that it impacted other people. That was my you goal and I'm sure that it did so I implore you take the messy action. I would to hear your feedback sign up. If listening for to this this weekend you guys it's all for moms these women and one men one man. They poured into us they were so generous and they're offerings and you'll hear everything from you know goal setting and goal planning and time management to you know, just dealing with your inner anxiety dealing with finances. We we Whole segment on finances and cash flow and you know how to create a non-budget. It was really fun. That was a great like episode the finance one and you guys not episode. It was an interview but there were so many good nuggets and all of the interviews and there were tools that went along with those you guys and so I implore to go and click the link to register for that. So you get all 10 And you can have them through it through this weekend. Like I said and get the freebies all of the stuff is there for you even if you miss the event which is over yesterday, so I am excited for you to take some messy action. I want to hear about it when you do and I would love to hear some feedback and share it with some mamas too. That might be you know, white benefit from from this or The Mastermind so till next week y'all.
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